Flame's impact on the young adults
These are quotes from some of our young leaders about life before Flame:-
"After [my father] died we only had my Mum -we had no one to help us find food. We all stopped studying and climbed palm trees to get the juice to sell. The rest of my family decided that I should go to school and they all went to Phnom Penh to find work. I stayed alone in Kampong Cham. I was only 6 years old. My parents died because there was no medical care, now I'm working on the Flame Mobile Medical Clinic once a week, giving free medical care to people living in the slums."
"I don’t ever remember my mother being nice to me. I desperately wanted to hear her say something nice to me but I never did. She loved my younger brother, but not me and I don’t know why. She would beat me and hit me and I never knew why she hit me. Now I am teaching little kids about photography in the exact slum where I grew up and I love it!"
This is why we love the work of Flame - we are giving these young people opportunities to study at university, to work towards a future they never dreamed possible. Please consider giving to Flame and be part of the story.
Makara Graduates from Flame
Makara has been with Flame since 2015, and is now ready to leave the Flame Leadership Academy and be launched into a new phase in her life. She started her Biology degree at the Royal University of Phnom Penh but had to drop out when her sister became terribly unwell and needed her alongside to help with her care. As orphans, these family relationships are very important. Makara has been volunteering at the Flame Activity Centre in Sensok and has enjoyed her time teaching younger slum living kids.
Makara has recently been accepted into an elite cooking school here in Phnom Penh run by Pierre Tami, a Swiss entrepreneur. The Academy of Culinary Arts Cambodia offered Makara a full scholarship, and she will be attending the course for two years, with six months of the course in house, and six months in a placement.
She is super excited already about what she has been learning, and will be able to live off site with her younger sister and younger brother. We celebrate families and are so happy that she will be able to be with her siblings. We wish her all the best in this new adventure!!
Makara the up n coming chef!
The Book Tuktuk in Action
This is what was happening today out with the Book TukTuk. Great to see children, many of whom have never touched a book before, getting involved.
Exhibition from Esther Flame Photographer 18-30 Sept CHristchurch
Full Circle
Immerse yourself in the experiences of life as a child in the slums of Phnom Penh, Cambodia, through the loving eyes of Esther So. Esther is an emerging photographer who has come full circle herself and now works as a leader at Flame. This exhibition is a celebration of Esther's talents, the work of her charity Flame and of Cambodian culture.
Full Circle is curated by Vera Hegedus-Gaspar
Presented by Krama & Co. and Events for Good .
Your are welcome to come and enjoy this exhibition within the Exchange opening hours for free.
We will run three events during this time;
20th Games afternoon from 4pm (free)
25th Movie night from 8pm (free)
30th Meet | Share | Celebrate exhibition celebration ($25) to buy tickets click here
Flame is a charity with strong NZ ties and Cambodian roots. At their heart, they work in slums to help and educate children and inspire leaders. They intention is to grow an organisation that is run by Cambodians for Cambodians. They call the process of slum child becoming young leader - “The Full Circle” – kids emerge as confident leaders in their communities, inspiring others in education, service and leadership. The ultimate.
Graduation Celebration
Deth is one of our youngest at the Flame Guy's Leadership Academy. He is 20, and last week graduated from high school!! This was a huge achievement, and we were all waiting with baited breath for his exam results!! The photo above is him jumping for joy :) He's a really fun guy!
He is now deciding exactly what he would like to do, what he would like to study ... and has a broad, broad horizon of hope stretching out in front of him!
We are looking for a sponsor to walk with Deth, please let us know if you'd like to partner with us on this exciting journey!
Young adults away together this weekend. Photo creds (selfie) by Yuhan Brang
Mobile Medical Expansion
At Flame, it's not just what we do, but who does it
Let me introduce you to Sothy... (Soh-tee) the current leader at our guy's leadership academy. He is dreaming of running a second mobile medical Tuktuk, bringing free medical care into the slums of Phnom Penh.
Would you consider helping him?
Sothy's Story
When I was a child, my dad suffered from mental illness, he wanted to kill us kids. He took his own life when I was a just little guy and I was the one who found him hanging. My siblings left school to help support the family after he died, climbing palm trees to get the fruit used for juice, but then it was decided that I should go to school. So, at 6 yrs old I was left alone in our family home, while everyone else went to Phnom Penh to find work. I couldn't cook or look after myself but I took care of the neighbour's animals, and in return they helped me. I was really scared of ghosts, I would hide under the covers at night. I was so alone.
My mum got sick and life took another turn. I remember looking at her sad face and feeling sad too, knowing I couldn't help her. I remember thinking to myself that if I knew about medicine, I could help her and could help other poor people too.
We had to sell our family home to pay for my mother's medicines. The money only lasted 3 weeks and 2 months after it ran out, my mother died. I was 7, and my little brothers were 2 and 3 years old.
I went back to living alone, and still had no idea how to cook for myself. I begged the neighbours "I will do anything for you, if you just give me something to eat!!" I stayed with them for one year until at 8, I was taken away with someone to live with a family. I remember staring out the window of the car as we drove away, trying to memorise the road because I was sure that I was being sold and would need to know how to get home again.
It turned out to be a foster home situation and my sister and brothers joined me there and lived with the family for 7 years. We knew that we weren't really their kids, they loved their own children more than us.
Now I am living at the Flame Leadership Academy and have just finished my 6th year of medical school. I have 2 more years of interning at local hospitals here in Phnom Penh before I can continue with my 4 year specialisation in paediatrics, which is my dream. I want to provide free medical care in rural Cambodia to children so that kids like I was are able to get medicines and the care they need.
A second Tuktuk and motorbike have already been donated, but Flame still needs ongoing costs of US$100 per week before we set this expansion in motion. Would you be able to help us?
Sothy has been working alongside Rithy for a year now, and will have our volunteer ER Nurse Alister accompanying him to the slums. We can't do this without your help.
Book Tuktuk
At Flame we believe that a tough childhood should not mean a tough future... that each kid we work with has the potential to become a leader in their community.
I shot a quick video today of the Flame Book Tuktuk... check it out, it's shirt but cute!
The Book Tuktuk is similar to Mobile Medical but instead of medicines, it brings BOOKS to kids who either aren't in school, or who are -but still need extra help. Read to a kid and a kid will read... great concept if the family are literate or if there are books at home, but with our families this isn't often the case.
Sokann reading to the kids today
One of our case workers, Poeurn had the idea of bringing books to the slums. He remembers when he was a kid, that there just weren't any books at home and now as a Flame case worker he visits our families, and saw he same thing. He asked if Flame could do something ... and with a huge thanks to St Paul's Collegiate, the Book Tuktuk was born,
Poeurn meeting with one of the families, with five young kids, none were in school... and they had lost their mother
Sokann is our book Tuktuk staff, otherwise known as the book Tuktuk star!! He drives the Tuktuk and teaches the kids. The original idea was more like a mobile library but Sokann quickly found that even kids up to grade 4, were simply unable to read. So, responding to the need, he has turned this into a little mobile school, reading to the kids and teaching them their letters. The kids who attend the Book Tuktuk are often responsible for their younger siblings, so Sokann arranges a clean tarpoline for the littlies and today's activity was colouring in.
If you like projects like this, please help us! We need regular monetary support to continue our work with these kids, to identify ones who should be in school and then help overcome the obstacles and break the poverty cycle. Check out our website and see what else we are doing!
Book tuktuk
Flame Heroes
Thai is a mentor at the Flame guy's Leadership Academy Home and spent some time talking with me last week. When he sees the young kids in our programs, he is reminded of himself as a grubby little boy. He believes that each of these kids, with the help of our supporters, can become adults like him who are able to be agents of positive change in their communities, to become leaders who know what's right and have the wisdom and strength to act.
The previous day a young man hurtled past Thai and Hounthy (our Sensok Activity Centre Leader) who were hanging out together. Hot on the man's heels was another guy, wielding a machete. The chase was on.
Without hesitation Hounthy took off after them -he wasn't going to sit back and watch a murder. This was no game, no rehearsal: someone was going to get seriously hurt.
The moment Hounthy ran off, Thai dropped everything and joined the chase, no way would he let Hounthy face the machete man alone.
Thai tackled the machete man from behind trapping his arms to his sides, and Hounthy grabbed the machete before any harm was done. Disaster was averted.
Were these Flame Leaders right to get involved? Hounthy's conscience would not allow him to be a passive bystander. Thai felt it was his responsibility to step in when the security guard simply watched.
How often do we know what's right but lack the courage to do what's right?
Flame promotes courage: to 'live boldly with the knowledge that God is with us.'
Honestly, it takes courage to invest in the lives of broken kids, not knowing what decisions they will make, where they will go, but we see the fruit of that investment in Thai and Hounthy today; street kids turned heroes.
You can invest in the lives of these kids too and become part of their story. It's easy to become a Flame partner, just click here
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Flame Video
Thanks to all the wonderful volunteers and filmmakers who made this video.
Breast is Best
Newborn babies and mother's milk, a beautifully designed combination, right?
This mum would be able to feed her baby, but her wee girl is the 6th child in the family and dad's in jail. Mum is alone, so although she has plenty of milk, she will go to work and leave bubs to one of the siblings to mind. This is a choice she will make to feed the family. She has asked if we could help by providing baby formula. Babies born into struggling families cannot get the "Best", but with some help, they can survive.
Huge thanks to our kind donors who make the work we do in the slums possible. We can't do this without you! If you'd like to help, please donate on the Flame website
Where is Hope?
Warning: I found this hard to write, you may find it hard to read.
A Flame child has been raped. The perpetrator has been arrested, but the crime committed against this girl will follow her for life. Can anyone communicate this kind of thing without loosing hope?
We have been waiting for some closure or news before letting our supporters know, letting the dust settle around the publicity too. Her picture was published in the papers and she was ostracized and bullied for telling. When someone is arrested in the community, there is a sense of betrayal, and a communal acknowledgement of lost income, and she's to blame. Her journey is a long hard one, that's for sure.
The perpetrator was arrested the day after her grandmother went to the police with the support of the assistant village leader and reported the crime, but we are unsure of where it's been left. Often times the perp will pay off the police and give a gift to the family, a kind of out-of-court settlement.
We are glad to say that the girl has been removed from the community and placed into protective care. When she returns to her family she will need ongoing counselling and support.
I know a young adult who has incredible trauma in her past, her childhood was a series of nightmares... but today, she is a confident leader in her community, she is bright, vivacious, and determined that her past will not limit her future. She is a student at university, and her dream is to help women to be safe when they travel as migrant labourers.
I think about the little girl and I am so deeply disturbed, but when I look at what she has the potential to become, I feel I can breathe again.
If you want to help kids like this to become strong nation changers, please donate.
Kids colouring at one of our centers
Flame Expansion: Steung Meanchey -one of the darkest slums of Phnom Penh
Flame recently adopted the Hope for Life Activity Centre in the heart of Steung Meanchay, which has been running for many years.
This is the kind of established slum where centres get broken into, things get stolen, and drug and alcohol related crimes are rampant. It's the underbelly of Phnom Penh where criminals run to when there's a police chase.
Sue's perspective of Steung Meanchey -
" It's not just slums and smells you can taste. The slum felt like another level down, more hardcore. We met a grandma today who is 50. I stood in her -not-even-house, with no door, just a corner of a walkway, my feet straddled the sewerage that was coming through from under the bed. I felt a heaviness of the deal she's been dealt in life, her son is a drug addict, her daughter in law has run away and her own husband recently died and she is left with her 10 yr old grandson.
I know that Flame can't take all that pain away, but we can do something to bring joy into her life. For this woman to see her grandson thrive, that he's in school and has such a different future from his own parents gives her hope. Her future is pretty much set, but she can see a brighter future for her grandson.
This lady is so happy that her grandson is in school!
Strangely, I don't feel hopeless when I see the slum. It's really well established, renown for drug and alcohol related crime and is a hiding place for criminals. But I do feel sad that Flame wasn't here 20 years ago. If we were involved in this community they would now have some young adults who would be doctors, lawyers and teachers who would be shining lights in that place.
That would be incredibly inspirational to the people we met there today. Maybe that would be the impetus they need to do the hard work required to get them out of that lifestyle and culture and rut.
There's an African proverb that says the best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is today. So even though Flame wasn't there 20 years ago, we are there today. And that's what matters.
Winthrops swap Auckland life to work in Phnom Penh slums
Nadia Winthrop, 11, volunteers teaching English once a week to kids living in a Phnom Penh slum
An Auckland family has gone from living a typical suburban lifestyle to running a charity in a slum in South East Asia.
The Winthrop family, from Onehunga, were on holiday in Cambodia in the city of Phnom Penh in 2015.
During their stay they decided to visit a slum to see what life was like for those living in extreme poverty.
The Winthrop family left their New Zealand lives behind to move to Cambodia and work for a charity in the slums.
Walking through the slums made the usually chatty Winthrop kids go silent, mum Nicola Winthrop said.
Read more:* Auckland family moving to Cambodia for charity*
"The family saw slum-living kids who collect rubbish or beg instead of attending school," Nicola said.
The visit had a major impact on the family, who decided they had to make a drastic change in their lives to help those living in the slums.
In mid-2016 the family followed through with their plans and left their "comfy life" in Auckland to move to Cambodia.
Nicola and her husband Graeme now run a charity called Flame, along with its founder Sue Hanna.
Flame, which is a New Zealand registered charity, focuses on providing education and leadership development to children living in slums.
The Winthrop children, who attend international schools, have also been helping at the charity.
Nadia Winthrop, 11, volunteers at a Flame Activity Centre.
Once a week Nadia teaches English to local kids. She has also been teaching Christmas carol Jingle Bells to a group at a kid's club that is putting on a Christmas show.
Nicola says living in Cambodia does mean Nadia misses her friends and old trampoline at times.
"Nadia is aware of what she gave up leaving Onehunga to come with her family to a developing country.
"She is happy to be part of the solution for these kids living in poverty," Nicola said.
St Paul's Collegiate comes to Flame
A group of 19 students from St Paul's Collegiate in Hamilton volunteered at Flame over the last week, doing painting projects and teaching English and ukulele. It has been a brilliant time and our Activity Centre at Sensok looks amazing! Thank you guys!
Flame are thankful for the generosity of this awesome kiwi school, they have funded the Book TukTuk, Flame's latest project, bringing books into the slums to reinforce learning, as well as identify kids who are not in school! This was the brainchild of Poeurn, our case worker extraordinaire, who recognized that kids in school often don't have books at home, and that there are still so many kids in the slums who aren't enrolled in school.
Bringing books to the slums
Streetkid becomes Leader
How Houn Thy went from a street kid to a leader at Flame
My name is Houn Thy, and I am the Flame Activity Centre Leader at Sensok.
When I was a little kid I was obsessed with food... let me tell you why.
My father died when I was little, I don’t remember when, and my mother looked after me and my four brothers as best she could. She worked in the jungle cooking for soldiers and would visit us about once a month. I became an orphan when I was quite little, I suppose I was about six. My mum was cutting long grass and a landmine exploded and killed her. I was devastated. Our eldest brother became the head of the home and took charge of us, venting his anger on us, ruling over us with an iron fist. He was downright mean and violent, and hit us and threw things at us. I was scared of him, so after a while I just took off.
I ran away and lived near the market where I would scavenge for food or beg from the stall owners. I slept wherever I could, sometimes in front of peoples shops under the eaves. Some people were quite kind and gave me edible bits and pieces. I remember being woken up with a bucket of water, being shooed away like a stray dog. A gang of big boys found me and threatened to burn me with cigarette butts or punch me if I didn’t find money for them, so I had to up my game and get smart, or get hurt. I figured out how to steal car insignia and sold them so I would have money to give the gang.
I still have scars where they burned me when I didn’t manage to find the money.
When I was living on the street, I made friends with another boy and we became like brothers, we would beg and find food together. He told me about a modern place in Phnom Penh where they gave food away to street kids, there was a place to live and it was safe, but I was too scared to actually go. My life was pretty bad, but at least I knew where I was! Later he suggested again that we go to the big city together on the train, tempting me with stories of limitless food and a comfy bed. Although I was scared at the idea of leaving everything familiar to me, I was so hungry all the time, I decided to risk it and go.
We went on the train together, and split up to beg and look for food on the long overnight journey. I totally panicked when the train finally pulled into the station at Phnom Penh and I was still separated from my friend. I got off the train with my heart beating loudly in my little chest, an ocean of people pouring onto the platform before me. I was totally lost and afraid.
To read the rest of Houn Thy's story click here
Time for Teeth
I took the photo above of these two begging boys on my first Mobile Medical trip. Have a look at the teeth of the boy with the huge smile. In developed countries we all have access to clean water and often dental care for kids is free. Brushing teeth is normal and rotting teeth is not. This has been on my mind, and Flame really wants the kids in our project to have healthy teeth.
Cute kid, nice photo thanks Esther!
We reached out to an organization called One2One who among other things, do dental work among the poor. Now, over 30 Flame kids have had their teeth checked! This is one more step towards whole minds and whole bodies! Collaboration like this makes the world of difference! Thanks One2One!!
Journey Begins
Do you remember the family who lost their mum? Check out the latest!!
These kids are going to school!!
Laughing their heads off!!
The family returned to Phnom Penh and Flame staff signed them up today. We will bring them rice, are looking at getting them into better accommodation and are moving forward on getting the kids into our Flame catch up class.
The joy on this wee face!
None of the kids have birth certificates, so we are planning another trip (4 hour each way!) to the countryside to talk with the village chief and see if we can get them organized. This is a pain, but not an impossible task. This is what we do!
Thank you to the kind donors who have helped make this possible.
Our caseworker Poeurn filling in forms :)
Mobile Medical on Steroids!
8 nursing students from Edith Cowan University in Perth come to help Flame
The students and Flame volunteers did medical checks, ear and eye checks, lice treatments, fingernail clipping and tutorials on brushing teeth with 450 slum dwelling children.
Hundreds of kids in the Cemetery
The nurses also conducted first aid training for the Flame Young Adults. It was such a full weekend!
The students were able to see the entire Full Circle: the slum living kids, the kids in our programs, and the young adults who volunteer now as leaders. The nursing students were stunned and teary eyed at the impact of the Flame leaders who knew poverty and are now university students and graduates who work among the poor.
"this has renewed my faith in humanity"
Hounthy doing eye checks